Showing posts with label My Husband. Show all posts
Showing posts with label My Husband. Show all posts

Wednesday, August 8, 2012

A Cool Friend of my Hubby's ~ convo


My husband, last night over dinner, went on a memory trip with me. He told me about a man that he had known when he was in his 20s. This man, was, at the time in his 50s. He went to church with my husband. And, at the time, my husband thought some of his "ways" were odd. But today, in much more maturity, my husband thinks this man was brilliant!

Things this man did:

1) He always had pockets full of candy. He felt that children should get to be young and enjoy the sweetness of life..and be allowed to have candy!!!

2) He always wore comfy shoes & clothes. His shoes looked like slippers, but they were made of leather. His pants were roomy and relaxed. 

3) He always asked that you call ahead if you want to come visit, and when company would show up, he would take the time to make sure he was fresh and clean, donning jeans and a clean shirt.

4) At church work days, he wore overalls and a t-shirt that had a collar.

5) He was always seen carrying a cardigan, which usually went over his daughter's shoulders.

6) They had one daughter and then couldn't have anymore kids. His wife had reproductive parts removed. But years later, she conceived twice and they had children in their older years.

7) He acted like a grandfather, never being in any kind of hurry. 

8) When he led music at church, every song what straight Scripture, like "This is the Day the Lord has Made." He had about 15 that he could pull out of his head. Some were short and some were like chapters long.

What a refreshing man and family!!!

Wednesday, August 1, 2012

My Husband's Plea Concering My Depression


The day I met the man who is now my husband, which is two years ago this month, he said something to me that startled me with comfort. I struggled with serious depression off and on (mostly on) from ages 25-35. Much of this was due to losing my way because of my confusion about God. 


Our first date, I bared my heart to my now husband, sharing what I had gone through and asking lots of questions about God. 


So many friends couldn't deal with me during the depression. People I never thought would turn their backs on me, did. I know that I was very difficult and it overwhelmed people. Still it hurt.


But this man that I had just met, after hearing what I had been through, called me dearheart (my favorite endearing name, that I heard for the first time from him), and told me that if I ever felt depression like that again to call him and let him know. He did not want me to have to go through that alone ever again. 


He stole my heart with this..


I was telling him a few weeks ago how much that meant to me and he assured me that it still holds true now as much as ever..I love my dear man!!!!!!!!!!!

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